Causes of Low Libido in Men - Reduced Sex Desire in Male

Low libido (sex desire) now a days is very common, whether in male or female. According to a study of an American agency, 39 % of male (above 30 years old) experience diminished sex desire. We are here to spot a light on various reason of low libido in male.

There are several factors which can affect the sexual potency of a male. Sometimes that may be medicinal, sometimes emotional and sometimes environmental.

Medicinal Factors

1. Testosterone is the hormone, which is responsible for creating lovemaking desire in male. So, a falling level of testosterone, no matter whatever the cause is results in a low libido in male.
2. Though it seems that drinking of alcoholic beverages enhances libido but the consequence prolonged intake of alcoholic beverages is always a low libido.
3. Excessive smoking of tobacco can also decrease sex desire.
4. Going under some kind of medication can also result in low libido. Prolonged exposure to mood stabilizers, tranquilizers, and blood pressure controlling pills results in a low libido in male.
5. There are some sex diseases which can make a person unable to make sex. Erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, curved penis are falls into this category.
6. Recurring pain from any diseases (may be sex related or not) makes a person unable to even think of lovemaking.
7. Physical weakness due to some reason or other can also play negative role.
8. Past sexual abuse sometimes could be the cause of low libido.
9. Addiction to drugs like Heroine, Marijuana and Brown sugar makes a man completely impotent in some cases.

Emotional Factors

1. Emotional factors play a big role in love-making as in the process two bodies and soul intermingled with each other. So, one can witness a low sex desire due to some emotional issues coming in between the couple.
2. Sometimes there is a sexual orientation conflict between the couple comes in between as a wall in their sexual life.
3. Unresolved relationship and unfaithful activities of the female partner can also refrain man from lovemaking.
4. Excessive anger also lowers the desire to have sex.
5. Stress, fear and anxiety are three things which have the potency to decrease the libido by a substantial amount.

Environmental Factors

1. Environmental factors are the culprit in most cases of diminished sex desire.
2. Excessive workload in the work place is enough to steal the vital energy from a person, results in low libido.
3. The commitment and duty of a person to his new born baby often draws less attention towards sex as before.
4. Eating habit can also be a culprit. Eating spicy and oily foods can diminish one's sex desire.
5. Ongoing family tension often pressurizes a man so heavily that he has less time and may be no time to think about sex.
6. In some conservative countries where sex is seen as a mean activity, does not allow a person to make sex when ever and wherever he wants.
7. Aging plays a vital role also. As the age progresses the sex desire diminishes naturally.
8. A person deprive of sleep is very less likely to get attracted towards sex.

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Sex Tips to Hide Your Virginity

No matter how confident a person you may be, having sex for the first
time is a scary prospect for pretty much anyone. It's like climbing into
a car for the first time and being told to just start driving -- a lot of things
could go wrong, but you don't really understand what they are until you start
going.

There are a lot of things to worry about on your first time. You want
to choose the right person. You're nervous about taking the risk of
actually suggesting that you HAVE sex. (How embarrassing will it be if the other
person doesn't want to?)

And then there's the risk that, well, you'll be lousy in bed.

I received an email recently from a visitor to my website www.FirstTimeSecrets.com [http://www.firsttimesecrets.com]
asking the following question that really tugged at my heartstrings:

Dear Samantha,

Do you have any sex tips that will hide my virginity? I don't want her to 

know it's my first time.

Thanks,
John

I think John's question is one that a lot of people have before their first
time. Nobody wants to look like a beginner -- fumbling around
with zippers, saying the wrong thing, touching your lover the wrong way, making
the whole experience awkward and uncomfortable.

No way! You want to be smooth and confident. You want to hit that perfect mix
where you're kind of taking charge, but kind of just letting the whole experience
happen. Zen sex, you might call it.

So without further ado, here are my top five sex tips for someone who
wants to hide their virginity:

1. Talk. If you can communicate with someone, you can have
good sex with them. If you can't, forget it -- the sex just isn't going to be
good.

For good sex, you'll need to be able to tell the other person how you're feeling,
what you want, what you don't want. Imagine if you couldn't!

Sadly, this is often the case -- we're afraid to talk, so we suffer through 

sex that just doesn't feel good. My advice? Do whatever you have to do so you
feel comfortable with the other person first. I don't want to sound old-fashioned
here, but dating is a pretty good place to start. 

Often we're so wrapped up in our own thoughts that we forget to think about 

the other person. Don't make that mistake -- it will make you a bad lover, trust
me. Think about them and their needs -- and maybe they'll do the same for you.

2. Consider telling the truth. If you want to hide your virginity,
you're starting your sex life based on a lie. Lies tend to kill intimacy and
make things difficult.

How bad would it be if she knew the truth about you? Or to put it another way...
how would you feel if you found out later that it was HER first time and she
lied to you about it?

People like it when you have the courage to tell them the truth, even if you're
embarrassed about it. Sharing something like this about yourself can bring you
closer together -- and that's what you're looking for, right?

3. Ask questions. One of the biggest mistakes a lot of people 

make early in their sex lives is to assume that being a good lover is all about
THEM. Here's a tip: good lovers don't put on a big show -- they pay a lot of
attention to THEIR lovers.

If you're worried about looking like a beginner, the worst thing you can do
is to try strutting into the bedroom and putting on a big show of how confident
you are. Trust me: try that and you'll look like a fool.

Instead, be a considerate lover. Try asking a few questions. Here are a few
to get you started:

• Are you comfortable?


• Is there anything you want to talk about before we do this?


• Are you nervous about anything?


• Can you show me how you want to be touched?
• 
  

4. Take turns. This is a great game to play, whether you're
experienced or not. Suggest to your lover that you take turns inviting each
other to try something sexual -- she goes first.

Both of you have the right to refuse any invitation at any time. If she turns
you down for something, don't take it personally! She's just taught you something
about what she likes and doesn't like. Pay attention to these signals, because
this is how you'll progress from lousy lover to great lover!

To keep things safe and comfy for both of you, you should only do things you're
comfortable and happy doing... and see where it leads!

For example, she might invite you to kiss her neck. Then you invite her to
run her fingers slowly up your spine. This is sexy, it's fun, and it's relaxing.
Sometimes it leads to sex, sometimes not -- just go with it, be respectful,
and enjoy!

This game can also be a great way to relax together and establish your boundaries.
It doesn't have to lead to full-on sex, or even to anything particularly heavy
-- it can be just as much fun with your clothes on.

5. Get skills. Yes, having sex is an instinct -- but have
you ever watched the Discovery Channel? Well, those animals are having sex by
instinct -- and generally, it ain't pretty.

If you want to be a good lover and have sex that's safe, comfortable, and totally
hot for both of you, there are two ways to do it.

The first way is to jump in, try doing it, and have awkward, weird sex until
you figure out how to do it right. That's how most people do it, and it's really
a shame.

The second way is to get some skills! The more you know about how to touch
your lover's body and handle different sexual situations, the more fun it's
going to be for both of you. Shameless plug: My Guide
to Losing Your Virginity is a good place to start -- it's an instruction
manual that takes the guesswork out of having sex. you can pick up a copy on
my site and try it risk-free.

In the end, why lie and hide the fact that it's your first time? Instead of
trying to fool her, try to wow her -- by being the best lover you can be. If
you can do that, everything else will fall into place.

Heart Disease and Sex

There is a lot of speculation among heart patients whether sex is advisable. Having a heart attack or undergoing a heart surgery is not the end of the world, let alone to a satisfying sex life. In fact resuming sex can make one feel secure and happy. The only thing one has to do is to check with the doctor for some guidelines.

To dispel the fear of having another heart attack during intercourse, an interesting study was carried out in the US. ECG electrodes were attached to many patients who suffered heart attacks.
The ECG was recorded throughout the day, including during the period of intercourse. The study revealed that at the time of orgasm, the heart rate went up to 120 beats per minute and after 2 minutes it came down to less than 100 beats per minute. More than 80 percent of patients did not have a problem in having sex.

How long to wait?

How long should one wait after a heart attack or bypass surgery? It is difficult to give a general answer to this question because each one has to be evaluated individually.
On an average, it takes about 6-8 weeks for healing. This period is the minimum recommended time for staying away from sex with one's partner. A stress test is done a couple of months after a heart attack, to give a fair idea of the recovery of the heart and how much stress it can bear.
But it is safe to say that you can have sex again when you can resume your other daily activities. If you can walk up two flights of stairs without any discomfort you are probably ready to have sex again. This can be substantiated by a stress (Treadmill) test to give you reassurance.

Medicines

Many medicines given to heart patients like heparin, tranquillizers, anti-hypertensive and antidepressants can take away one's interest in sex. If such a thing happens and you wish to resume sex, discuss the subject with your doctor. He will help you to lower the dosage of the medication.

Coupling with angina

There are some people who have never suffered a heart attack but have the problem of angina (chest pain due to heart disease). How safe is it for them to indulge in sex? In such situation, the evaluation has to be done by a physician/cardiologist.
A stress test is recommended, as there is a likelihood of having anginal chest pain during sexual activity. The patient should keep his tablets close by and can take if he/she develops a chest pain.

Safety tips

• Take it easy: After a heart attack or surgery, the first time you have sex, be careful and do not attempt intercourse. If there is no chest pain and breathlessness for a couple of days, you can proceed.


• Avoid sex when tired: Many men will find that the best time to have sex is first thing in the morning. Alternatively, have a short nap and they try having sex.


• Have sex in familiar surroundings like your own bedroom.


• Keep the room temperature comfortable.


• Do not have sex immediately after meals as it puts additional strain on the heart. You should wait for at least 2-3 hours before having sex.


• Do not drink alcohol as it might stimulate the heart.


• Use positions which are comfortable and you have no trouble breathing. If you develop breathlessness, rapid heartbeat, a feeling of extreme fatigue, giddiness, irregular heartbeat or chest pain, consult your doctor the next morning.


• Avoid sex with someone other than your regular partner or spouse. It makes extra risks.


• There are no standard rules even after clearance by your doctor and after taking proper medicines. If you are not comfortable with the sex act for any reason, which may even, be psychological, avoid it.

Sex is not all
In spite of the doctor's reassurance some couples may not be able to overcome their fears and resume sex. 
It is important to remember that expressions of sex can range from the pleasure of being near someone, to touching and holding, to embracing, caressing and that satisfaction comes not just from sexual intercourse.

For Men Only: 3 Tips for Great SEX

Sure, sure sure - you already know everything there is to know about how to have great sex. Are you really sure about that? Well keep an open mind and see if you learn anything new. Believe it or not, great sex is incredibly subjective and might not be what you think it is for your partner.

I have yet to meet a man who hasn't thought - or told me - that they are the next best thing since slice bread when it comes to making love. Interestingly enough, I often hear a very different story from their partner - but I will leave that subject for another day. The point of the story however; is these men are not lying, they actually believe what they are thinking or saying is true. The problem here is that great sex for you might not be considered great sex for someone else.

Why? Because great sex is truly in the eye of the of the beholder. Some men think they are Casanova because they can "last" for over 5 minutes or they bring their partner to multiple orgasms (which, hey, I must admit is not a bad thing). But the key to having great sex with your partner is knowing what exactly your partner wants, needs and likes. And it might be very different than what you believe is great sex and what you think they want, need and like.

Great Sex Tip # 1: Use your mouth - not only for kissing and other forms of sexual arousal but for communication!! That's right guys - ask your partner what they want and like - be open and try not to have preconceived notions of what you think you know about your partner's sexual preferences. You might be very surprised to hear the information your partner shares with you about her sexual pleasures.

Great Sex Tip # 2: Remember your sex life has nothing to do with porn sex. Do not make the mistake of thinking great sex with your partner is going to be "life imitating art". In other words, "Debbie Does Dallas" does not have anything at all to do with great sex in your relationship. Zip, Zero, Nada, Nothing!! So don't think great sex has to look anything like an x-rated movie.

Great Sex Tip # 3: Do not believe all the "locker room" talk you hear about the subject of sex. Research shows most men think their sex life is missing something that everyone else's has and/or that other men are having more frequent and more passionate and crazy sex! Guys - you tend to over-exaggerate (if not downright lie about) your sexual lives to other men. Do not believe what I call the "locker room" talk about sex most men engage in. They belong to the category of stories told that start with: "You should have seen the size of the fish that got away". Got it? So don't believe all this locker room talk and definitely do not compare your sex life to these fictitious stories. Every other couple besides you is not living on the "Love Boat" - having frequent and explosive sex all the time. This is just not true.

So ladies, pass this article on to the one you love. These guys might not admit it, but my bet is they might feel a little relieved to get this information. After all, if we are honest with ourselves, nobody really wants to believe anybody is having any better, or more frequent sex than everybody else.

So hopefully this article will take some pressure off all the couples out there who are not having sex swinging from the chandelier.

Rekindle Romance and Happiness in Your Relationship,

Dr. Patty Ann

Hidden Health Benefits Of Sex

I do not recommend sex before marriage (sorry for that) but I believe sex if used in a good way is quite beneficial for health. If you think sex is just for pleasure or a gesture of love, think it again. Benefits of sex extend far beyond the bedroom. Do you know sex is a form of both mental and physical exercise? As you read this you will find out more health benefits of sex than you have ever known.

This may surprise some people, but it is true, there are several proven health benefits of sex and doctors also recommend having sex at least thrice a week.

Sex reduces stress:
Sex relieves stress as it reduces blood pressure. Research shows us that people who are active in sex respond well to stress and are less nervous when given what is thought difficult tasks such as speaking in public. They show better results than those who are less involved in sexual intercourse.

Improves cardiovascular health:
There are some old believes saying that the tiresome efforts during intercourse can result in a heart stroke. But this is not true; it is found that frequent sex is not associated with stroke. Instead, regular sexual intercourse reduces the risk of fatal heart attacks. So, next time you feel aroused, give it a warm hearty welcome.

Sex heals pain:
Studies show that various pains such as headache, arthritis pain or PMS symptoms begin to improve well after having sex. This is because of the oxytocin hormones released during sex increases endorphins which in turn decline pains.

Strengthens pelvic floor muscles:
Here is another reason to thank sex. Women doing some 'kegel' or pelvic floor muscle exercises during sex can have the benefits of minimizing the risk of incontinence as it strengthens the area. It also gives you more pleasure.

Immunity booster:
Regular and normal sex of at least twice a week has been linked with good levels of antibodies called immunoglobulin A or IgA. These antibodies protect you various health problems like colds and infections.

Burns calories:
It is believed that some 20 to 30 minutes of sex can burn more than 85 calories. Assuming this, we can say that sex is a good form of physical exercise.

Protects from prostate cancer risk:
Studies showed that frequent ejaculations of about five or more times a week in men who are in their 20s are less exposed to prostate cancer in their later lives than those having less or no ejaculations.

Sex is also better than taking sleeping peels as it helps you sleep better naturally. According to researchers, the oxytocin released during orgasm promotes better sleeps. As mentioned above it is also a good form of mental exercise as it boosts self-esteem to make us feel good and proud of ourselves.

The oxytocin released during orgasm is also called love hormones. As the level increases it helps us bond and build love with a feeling of generosity.

For women, there is also a reason to rejoice. The next time you have your periods; do not be afraid of any side effects. Some people in the past believe that sexual intercourse during menstrual periods can have negative effects to one's health. But, doctors have proved that sex during periods is safe and enjoyable as long as adequate precautions are taken.

The Culprits of Sex Addiction

The Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health estimated that about 3% - 5% of the United States population is suffering from sexual addiction or sexual compulsivity. That's 15 million to 18 million Americans out of control with sex. And this is only a conservative estimate based on individuals who seek treatment. The number of people struggling with sexual addiction is growing at frightening rates with the availability of Internet pornography. No longer does the sex addict have to risk discovery by buying pornography in public. Today, a sexual fix is just a few clicks away. Sexual addiction has existed back as far as we have recorded history. However, our more modern understanding of this problem has developed only in the last two to three decades as huge number of lives and families have been affected by this addiction. Sexual addiction is a reality happening now in our society. The sex addict could be a co-worker, a friend, a partner, or a loved one that carries their dependency alone and in secret, hiding the shame, guilt, and fear of rejection in a lonely and isolated emotional existence. But, who or what is to be blamed for this rampantly growing social problem? Or do we just normalize sexual addiction as one of the inevitable issues that occur naturally in a man's life? Let us examine the possible culprits.

The sex addict

Yes, some would blame the sex addict for his own addiction. Certainly he is responsible for his own behavior, but did he raise his hand one day and say "Sign me up for a sex addiction!" Not very likely. A sex addict is one who has lost the ability to control his or her sexual behaviors and instead indulges sexual fantasies and a near constant search for a sexual "fix." He often seems powerless to resist the obsession even to the point of destroying his or her life, marriages, and other relationships. Sex addicts have little comprehension of the risks they take. Patrick Carnes, in his study about sexual addiction, found that sex addicts don't necessarily enjoy sex. Contrary to enjoying sex as a self affirming source of physical pleasure, the addict has learned to rely on sex for comfort from pain and for nurturing or relief from stress. The addicts themselves may not be able to understand why they are acting out sexually or why constant thoughts either of having sex with someone or compulsively masturbating fill their minds. Sex becomes the most important thing in their lives much like alcohol dominates the life of an alcoholic leaving little time for anything else.

The family

Studies reveal that a large percentage of sex addicts come from dysfunctional families. Patrick Carnes' research indicates that 87% of the families of sex addicts included more than one addict in the home and a majority of them grew up with some experience of physical, sexual, and or emotional abuse. The child grows up much like an adult in a little child's body only to become like a little child in an adult's body later in life. The future sex addict learned to self soothe as opposed to soothing with the comfort of a caring and consistent care giver. They learn to adapt to their life experience and to find comfort in sex. Sex addicts simply come from families that failed to meet their emotional needs and may have left them a family legacy of dysfunction. Thus, the family plays a critical role in the development of sexual addiction.

The Media

Should we not consider media as one of the triggering forces that lead one to sexual addiction? The media bombards us with images sexualizing men, women, and even children, espousing the concept that sex unleashes the full potential of a man or a woman. A study by The Center for Media and Public Affairs' found that sexual content is featured once every four minutes on network TV and that 75 percent of prime time television in the 1999-2000 seasons included sexual content. Substantial numbers of sex addicts point to their overexposure to sexual materials as a contributing factor to their sexual addiction.

The Internet

The Internet has become the most rapidly growing form of sexual acting out for many sex addicts. The Internet is a one-stop shop for the sex addict where he or she can access sexual content of an endless variety and engage in cybersex or view pornographic materials in isolation, with secrecy, and instant accessibility. In a study conducted among 932 sex addicts, 90% of men and 77% of women said pornography was significant to their addictions. More frightening is the impact the Internet is having on our children who are increasingly exposed to this content. The first generation of men and women raised with the Internet are now entering adulthood. This is a generation of people who were significantly exposed to age inappropriate sexual content at very early ages. It is a little scary.

Now, can we really blame the family, the media or the advent of the Internet for the rise in sexual addiction? There are many culprits that lead to a person becoming dependent on sex to get high, numb out, or escape in fantasy. These are some of the more important ones but unfortunately there are many more.

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What Men Want In Women - Sex or Romance? (You Won't Believe It)

Conventional wisdom tells us that what men want in women is primal. Put simply, men want sex. Of course, I shouldn't say all men. But realistically, it seems to me that most young men, and even a growing number of old ones, find relationships to be a necessary inconvenience that must be endured in order to satisfy primeval urges.

On the other hand, conventional wisdom also tells us that women are typically looking for romance, stability, and love. The conflict between what men want and what women want is a classic one, as the subject has been part of our western experience, ad infinitum. These are the stereotypes that seem to ring true.

I would suggest this conflict is strongly reflected in the high divorce rate. But high divorce rates are a fairly recent development. Only after women have been able to assert their rights in all spheres of society and culture have they been able to exert their rights in divorce court, but that is a subject for another article.

So given this apparent conflict between the sexually driven Neanderthal cavemen and the more refined romance-seeking female, can women get what they want even when we know that what most men want in women is sexual gratification?

What I've done is looked to the most recent social science data to find out if what men want in women is nothing more than a thinly veiled desire to copulate. You might say the lid has been blown off our traditional views about what men really want in women. Here are the findings:

University of Iowa Decennial Study - What Men And Women Want

This study has been conducted every decade since 1939. Survey respondents are queried about the importance of eighteen characteristics they would find desirable or undesirable in a potential partner. Here's what they found out about men:

€ Men placed a great deal of importance on if a woman was smart. This is quite a change because in past surveys, a woman's intelligence was not very important to men.

€ Men also want women to be dependable and financially secure. Perhaps this is a sign that men are now looking for women they can admire and respect. Hopefully this does not indicate a growth in the number of men that are unemployed lazy blood suckers.

€ Men would like women to be good cooks and good housekeepers. Perhaps not everything changed about how men view women.

Compared to the findings of previous years' studies going back to the 1930's, men have changed their view about what they want in a woman. But let's take a look at another study.

The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction - Indiana University

The results of this study conducted in 2011 were published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior. This study surveyed more than 1,000 couples in Japan, Germany, Brazil, Spain, and the United States. Here is what the researchers found about what men want in women:

€ Men were found to place more importance on relationship happiness than women.

€ Men felt it was important that their female partners were gratified as a result of sex.

€ It was important for men to kiss and cuddle with their partners as a source of relationship satisfaction.

€ For men, relationship happiness was directly proportional to the length of a relationship. In other words, the longer the relationship, the happier the man.

It appears men are looking for long-lasting and fulfilling relationships. Amazingly, men are more likely to desire a happy relationship than women. This definitely shows that men's views of women and relationship have changed.

Let's take a look at one final study by Match.com.

The Match.com Single in America Study

Match is the gold standard for having a good idea about what singles want because they ask millions of singles what they want as part of their membership package. Match commissioned the University of Binghamton's Institute of Evolutionary Studies to conduct this study. Here are some of their findings:

€ Men really do want to get married. About 33% of single males who do not have children want to be married and of those 33%, about 24% want to have children. This is in contrast to single women that want to get married, of which only 15% want to have children. Can you say role reversal?

€ Men are not really the sex maniacs you think they are. 24% of 21-34 year old men are virgins.

€ No Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am here. About 35% of one-night-stands develop into longer term relationships.

It is clear, from these findings at least, that stereotypes about what men want in women are beginning to break down. Of course, there are plenty of men who still are looking for one thing and will tell a woman just about anything to get what he wants and move on. But there is an increasing number of men who are looking for long-term caring and committed relationships. What is also interesting about the data is that women are beginning to adopt some of the previously well accepted beliefs about men and do not place as much importance on relationships as in previous times.

Nevertheless, men as a sociological group have begun to evolve in their modes of dating and relationships. So, there is hope for women who have found it difficult to understand what men want in women.

Spice Up Sex Life

A healthy sex life is the key to any successful marriage; therefore it is the duty of every married man and woman to spice up sex life in their marriage. Remember that first day of marriage during the honeymoon, wife was wearing sexy bridal lingerie, and husband spent all the previous week working out at the gym to make sure he was extra buff to satisfy his wife to be. Every effort is given to spice up marriage in the beginning, but as the years go by, wife puts away the sexy bridal lingerie, and starts wearing her old comfortable flannel pajamas, and husband goes from being a weekend warrior on the football field to playing video game football on the couch in his dingy boxers. As a couple starts growing comfortable together the effort to spice up sex life starts to fade, and the bedroom hasn't seen any hot action in months. It doesn't mean that the love has gone from the relationship, it's the natural evolution of every relationship for the sex life to fizzle out a bit, but if you are looking to spice up marriage again there are plenty of things you can do. Women try losing the flannel pajamas and start wearing that sexy lingerie that hugs your curves just right. Walk in front of the TV with your sexiest strut, and give your husband a really good reason to drop the game controller and start pushing your buttons again. Men stop wrapping your package in those plain white cotton boxers. After a couple years or so the wife starts losing interest in unwrapping that package unless you give her some visual appeal once in a while. Try hitting the gym again and do your best to be that stallion your wife wants to ride. Buy some sexy underwear and give your wife your hottest male stripper routine. Marriage is a beautiful thing, and while two people may grow comfortable together, adding a little spice once in a while always helps to recapture those first moments during the honeymoon when things were hot and heavy. Panty by post has many types of materials and styles that range from lace to silk to satin and can be paired with a sleek bra or bustier. These are guaranteed to get his heart pumping and blood boiling even on the coldest winter nights.
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Enjoy Sex Safely With Quality Condoms

Sex is a basic necessity of life and every man and women crave for it. No matter whatever your age might be you surely want to enjoy sex passionately. Nevertheless it is necessary to adopt proper protection, no matter if you are indulging into sex with your partner or with a stranger. Many men overlook the relevance of condoms, as they believe their partner blindly. However, you both wouldn't want to get involved into unprotected sex, as it increases the risk of unwanted pregnancy.

The best and tried methods to protect yourself and your partner from any sort of sex related issues are non lubricated condoms. There are many companies that manufacture such products, and sell them at a reasonable price. Before choosing one for your needs it is recommended to check the quality, and should be last for a longer time.

Not many condoms can resist extreme heat, so you need to be careful about the same. In case you want to enjoy sex with her inside the tub, filled with hot water, then be careful. The lubricant might not last, as it cannot resist temperature at all. Not many men have enough knowledge about the condoms and end up purchasing the wrong and cheap product.

Instead of protecting you from any sort of problem, you might end up facing lots of problem. The effectiveness of condoms differs from one company to the other. Thus it is recommended that you research well before buying one for your needs. The size of the condoms also matters a lot, and needs to be considered before buying one.

You should be able to wear it easily and should have no reasons to worry about it slipping off while enjoying sex. Usually men think that a bigger sized one is an ideal one, as it will help blow up during erection. It is a wrong concept, as condoms are made up of elastic material which stretches at the time of erection.

All you need to ensure is that you are comfortable after wearing it. The prices of the condoms vary from one company to the other. A flavored one will be more expensive as compared to the normal one. Thus you need to be very thoughtful while choosing one for your requirements. These, day's buyer can place the order for such a product from net. It is one of the easiest and safest ways to buy the latest condoms.

A well designed and quality condom will protect you from AIDS, STDs, and other issues. If you want to enjoy safe to avoid pregnancy then it is necessary to use condoms every time and anytime. Once you are done with it, you can easily dispose it.

Play Between the Sheets with Our Sex Tips

Sometimes sex can get stagnant and uninteresting. Especially when two people get very accustomed to what makes the other feel good, sex can become downright systematic--a series of algorithmic rituals designed for maximum efficiency of skill-boring! But with these new sex tips [http://www.thefrisky.com/sex/] you can start playing between the sheets.


Reverse Gender Roles in Bed


You may have heard the term "pillow princess" to refer to a girl who remains relatively stationary in bed as her partner does all of the pleasuring for her. Have you considered that perhaps you've been too much of a pillow princess? Sometimes this attitude on the part of the female is a manifestation of the culturally-instilled norm in which all erotic effort is expected to come from the man, and sometimes it's from shyness. But if you're with someone you like, there's no reason to be shy. Break rules-especially rules that appear so ubiquitous that they are often forgotten about!


If you're straight, consider what it's like to be a lesbian: frequently both partners act simultaneously as the "lover" and the "beloved," or else take turns depending on the mood of the moment; and also consider that men frequently have the same erogenous zones as women. If your male partner doesn't say much about it, that doesn't mean he wouldn't appreciate the extra attention to, say, his nipples, neck, fingers, and eyelids. Basically, if it feels nice to you, find out if it feels nice for somebody else. There are some sex tips for pleasuring women that may well apply to the opposite sex, but the only way to find out is to try.


Stop always being "the girl" and give someone else a turn! Female dominance is hot.


Film Yourselves


If you're particularly shy, this activity might make you cringe. But if you get a kick out of voyeurism, it might turn you on something massive. Just think of it as your own, personalized spicy movie, which you can use during periods of prolonged absence think college vacations or excursions abroad. Or it may be that you and your partner would enjoy watching it while making your next tape. 


You can also try consummating your love in front of a mirror if you don't like committing your intimate acts to media. The benefit of using a mirror is that you can take a peek at it whenever you feel so-inclined, and then look away at your discretion. Little peeks and glimpses of what you and your partner might look like to an outsider might send you ripples of excitement. You may realize you two are far hotter than you'd previously considered.


Kiss Everywhere Except The Mouth


You may have heard of this one before. It can be tantalizing not to be able to kiss your loved one on the mouth. If you're more artistically-inclined, you might have paint or body crayons you can use to mark already-kissed areas, or you might have lipstick. Set a time-limit for yourselves. If you aren't against childish games or covering yourselves in graffiti, this is a mighty fun activity.

How To Extend Your Sexual Performance By Using Sex Positions To Last Longer In Bed!

You can't have penetrative sex without using at least one sex position. And some people say you can't have really good sex without using at least two or three sex positions. So what does this mean for a guy who suffers from premature ejaculation?

On the face of it, it doesn't seem to mean much. After all, what difference does a second or third sex position make when you come two minutes into the first one? However, the truth is that sex positions can be a premature ejaculator's greatest tool when they're used correctly. Here's how.

Let's name 5 sex positions.

* Missionary position (you on top, as she lies under you).
* Spoons (you both lying on your sides, with you behind her).
* Cowgirl (her on top, facing you).
* Reverse missionary (she lies totally flat on her belly, you kneel€"with one knee on either side of her body€"above her)

You need to perform these in the order shown above next time you have sex, or, if you can't complete them all in one session, over the course of several sexual encounters.

Now we need to set up a stimulation scale in your mind. Make 0 mean absolutely no sexual stimulation. Make 5 mean fairly sexually stimulated. Make 7 very sexually stimulated. 8 should be close to coming. 9 should be right on the edge, just before the point of no return and 10 should be climaxing.

You're going to perform each position for as long as it takes you to reach a 7 or 8 on the stimulation scale. While performing each position you should ask yourself the following questions (either silently, or as a discussion with your partner).

1. How tight does this feel on my penis?

2. How intense is the stimulation on my penis?

3. How quickly is it building up the stimulation?

4. How long does it take for me to go from 0 to 8 on the stimulation scale while in this position?

5. How easy is it for me to bring myself back down the stimulation while in this position by altering my thrust speed, depth and angle?

By asking yourself the questions above, you'll be able to determine exactly which sex positions afford you the most control of your stimulation levels and which afford you the least. Based on this information, you can then rank them from the most intense to the least intense and then€"you guessed it€"use them in this order during your subsequent sexual encounters.

Don't worry about it getting samey. You can still mix it up a bit. The important thing is that you now know which positions are a big no-no when you're already on the edge of coming. That's a very, very useful piece of knowledge to have when you have premature ejaculation. It will allow you to add up to 10 minutes onto your sexual performance.
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Proven Natural Ways To Increase Sex Drive in Women

Timely and nourishing diet, use of herbs and healthy lifestyle are safe and very effective ways to increase sex drive in women. Generally women lose their libido due to stress and poor health caused by untimely and undernourished diet and stressful daily routine. Some women have medical conditions like thyroid, diabetes and other disorders related to reproductive system which leads them to the problem of lesser sex drive. Whatever may be the reason but lesser interest in lovemaking is not good at all for a healthy relationship and also for mental health. Hence alleviating the problem is necessary and doing it naturally is the best way. Eating diet which comprise of foods rich in nutrients which strengthen and promote smooth functioning of reproductive system and taking support of herbs which can remove deficiencies and disorders from the body are very effective ways to increase sex drive in women.

Use of herbs is one of the oldest and trusted methods to increase sex drive in women. Herbs are strong and powerful and can cure disorders and ill-effects of medical conditions, poor lifestyle and undernourished diet to increase sex drive in women. Shatavari is one of the popular herbs which are well known for their wide ranging properties to resurrect female reproductive system. This wonderful herb can rejuvenate weak and feeble female reproductive organs and also maintains healthy hormonal balance which allows a woman to lead a passionate love life. This herb is recommended for post and pre-natal problems and for calming menopausal symptoms. Damiana leaves are also famous as potent herb for reinstating higher desire and drive for lovemaking in women. This herb enhance sensitivity in intimate female organs and treats problems like dryness and lack of lubrication to increase sex drive in women very effectively.

Healthy and nourishing diet is also very effective and including proper food items in the diet plan can show quick results. Asparagus and celery are two very important herbs which can be included in the diet to increase sex drive in women. Asparagus is rich source of vitamin E, A and C and folic acid, fiber, thiamine and potassium. Regular intake improves functioning of reproductive system and overall health to increase sex drive in women. Celery is wonderful in increasing secretion of testosterone hormone which ignites desire for lovemaking in women too. Herbs are also useful in curing low libido and frigidity problems in women. Fantasy and Kamni capsules are powerful herbal supplements that balance hormone levels in body and uplift libido and desire for lovemaking.

Food items like soy products, oysters, honey and fruits like banana and avocado are very useful and effective. These foods have properties to elevate desire for lovemaking and supplement various vital nutrients which are very necessary to improve functioning of female reproductive system. Some of the spices like ginger, garlic, nutmeg and clove are wonderful and very useful to increase sex drive in women. These spices increase blood circulation and improve digestive system. Ginger and garlic are very effective digestive system cleansers, regular use of these in raw form or while cooking is very effective remedy to increase libido in women. One teaspoon of flaxseeds everyday is one of the easiest ways to increase sex drive in women. Flaxseeds supply omega-3 and 6 fatty acids which maintain hormonal secretion and production healthy, proper hormonal secretion counters ill-effects of stressors and maintains female libido.

How to Improve Oral Sex? Take Pills

How to improve Oral Sex? If the sexual secretions taste sweet, you would certainly love to touch the sexual organ of your partner with your tongue. It is the taste and smell that drives you away from this pleasure. Touching sex organ is certainly a pleasure but the dilemma is that sexual excretions aren't tasty.

Why to taste secretions of sex organs? You have to. If you want to enjoy sex to the full, you have to go oral. Try your partner convincing for non-penetrative way of lovemaking. You will find that your partner is willing to enjoy lovemaking this way but the smell and taste of the secretion form your organ drivers his/her away. Change the smell and the taste for better with the help of medicines.

You smell what you eat. Red meat, garlic, onion, vinegar, alcohol, tobacco and everything you eat, drink and inhale has a say in what your body excretes and sexual excretions are no differ than regular excretions. Your partner wants to enjoy lovemaking to the full but he/she is unable to tell that you don't smell and taste sweet. In fact none of us smells sweet. But now you can change the smell and taste of your sex organ for better with the help of pills.

As said earlier that you excrete what you eat, you need changing your eating habits to smell and taste sweet. Add fruit pills to your diet and see amazing results within a couple of days. It is how to improve oral sex? You can do it in a hassle free, convenient, safe and affordable manner. These aren't prescription medicines for which you need taking permission of a doctor. Nor do these medicines going to change the chemistry of your body.

If you want to enjoy lovemaking to the full then go oral but first know how to improve oral sex. If you are already enjoying lovemaking in this way then you can improve the pleasure you draw from this activity with the help of these fruit pills. They are safe as they contain fruit extracts.

When you know how to improve oral sex, you can enjoy sex this way to the full. By simply changing the smell and taste of your excretion, you can help your partner perform well on your sex organ and you keep performing on his/her organ. Oral lovemaking a two-way process in which both the partners please each other using their tongues.

High Blood Pressure And Sex: Perfect Way To Overcome The Challenges

High blood pressure and sex are highly related in more than one ways. Like any other physical default in the body high blood pressure also has an impact on every human's sexuality. It does not have any signs or symptoms. High blood pressure affects how the body gains sexual satisfaction therefore it poses a great sexual challenge to both men and women. For men, high blood pressure contributes to erectile dysfunction. 

This is because the condition damages the blood vessels lining contributing to the hardening of the arteries a condition known as (atherosclerosis). This decreases the flow of blood to the penis thus making it a challenge to achieve and maintain penile erections. A single instance of erectile dysfunction is enough to create anxiety. A victim might dread sexual encounters in fear that it might happen again. This directly kills any sexual relationship.

It is the flow of blood that connects high blood pressure and sex. High blood pressure interferes with blood flow to the sexual organs and so to the vagina. This leads to sexual dysfunction in women since it demotes sexual arousal or sexual desire. More to the effects are vaginal dryness and difficulty in attaining orgasms. Just like their male counterparts, women might experience anxiety and dread sex. These sexual dysfunction leads to dangerous relationship issues. Medications used to treat high blood pressure increase the risk of destruction of the victim's sex drive. In men, the treatment reduce sexual desire and also interferes with normal ejaculation. In women, it is the same story of "not tonight dear".

To overcome these challenges you need to confront the issue by talking to your doctor. Do not resign to a sexless life because a well informed doctor can rediscover the sexual satisfaction you once knew. Doctors understand conflicting issues between high blood pressure and sex. The more medical history your doctor has about you the better. Be honest with the medic and expose as much details as he needs. He should know the medications you are on, the condition of your sexual relationship, the number of sex partners you have, any feeling of depression or stress. He will need all this information in order to advise you accordingly. Another way of trying to help yourself out is by considering your medications. Sexual dysfunction is a dangerous side effect of some treatments. It is safe to take the medication as prescribed in order to reduce the risk of such disastrous side effects.

Consult your doctor about other options that are less likely to cause side effects which interferes with sex. Only with the approval of a doctor that you should stop taking high blood pressure medication. You should take care of both high blood pressure and sex because you need good health too. In order to maintain a safe range of high blood pressure, you might need a monitoring device at home. You can use erectile dysfunction drugs sildenafil so long as its combination with other drugs is not unsafe. To reduce high blood pressure, stay free of tobacco, eat healthy diet and exercise often. This can greatly improve your sex life. To add to your efforts, set a wonderful stage for fulfilling sex. Your sex desire may be affected by the setting in which sex occurs. Employ all other tactics to intimacy and you will discover that you can still enjoy sex while living with high blood pressure.