There are a whole range of different situations which can apply here. Whether you're happily married, having relationship problems with your spouse or single and living with your flatmate, this article can help you get some much needed sex back into your life.
Sleeping separately but still in love
So you're dating or married and you sleep in different rooms. The first thing you need to know is that it's completely common around the world. Two people can be very much in love and happily together but still sleep in different places. The common culprits for sleeping apart include snoring, too much movement during the night, sleep talking, having conflicting shifts and even wanting different temperatures.
So you're dating or married and you sleep in different rooms. The first thing you need to know is that it's completely common around the world. Two people can be very much in love and happily together but still sleep in different places. The common culprits for sleeping apart include snoring, too much movement during the night, sleep talking, having conflicting shifts and even wanting different temperatures.
Whatever your reasoning for sleeping separately, you firstly need to accept the fact. Holding resentment against the other person for wanting to migrate isn't going to help anything. If your partner can't sleep at night because you snore, you need to understand that. Plus, your partner gets the right amount of sleep, they'll be happier the following day and much easier to get along with. In some cases, sleeping separately has saved marriages and kept people together. Just remove the emotional baggage and guilt so you can both enjoy your lives as they are.
This may be your opportunity to try new things. Since the bedroom may be a place of contention, try for sex in other places around the house - the couch, shower or even the back yard. You can spice things up even more than just being limited to the bedroom. Also, just because your lover has receded to their room for the night, doesn't mean they're ready to sleep. They may stay up for a while reading or watching the telly. Give them a little surprise once in a while. While their light's still on, sneak into their room in your sexy underwear and seduce them. You never know, they may be secretly longing for a night of passion and seduction.
Relationship breakdown
If you're out of the bedroom because you're having relationship problems, well that's another story and it might be more difficult for you to get sex in that situation. You might be in the stage where you're just ready to shout € I Need Sex € out your bedroom window & wait for any passer-by to take up your offer. Well, that's probably not a great idea, but it can be difficult for both of you if you're not getting any.
If you're out of the bedroom because you're having relationship problems, well that's another story and it might be more difficult for you to get sex in that situation. You might be in the stage where you're just ready to shout € I Need Sex € out your bedroom window & wait for any passer-by to take up your offer. Well, that's probably not a great idea, but it can be difficult for both of you if you're not getting any.
You could both agree to still have sex but this can often make things messier. It's not easy just having casual sex with someone you've been dating or married to. You may want to set some rules and boundaries to avoid being hurt if you do decide to go ahead with such an arrangement. Or you might just have to work to resolve your relationship issues first.
Even if your partner lets you, it's probably not a good idea to invite an outside person to have sex with in your bedroom. This can make the whole situation hostile. Like a wise man once said, €you don't shit where you eat€. So, if you really must have sex, go to the other person's place or just hide it really well.
Virgin Flatmates
You're living with a hot flatmate and you just want to jump in their pants. We get it, but before you jump the gun there's a few things you should consider. There's really no such thing as €friends with benefits' in the long run. Sure, you may be on good terms for a while, but more often than not, flatmates who get intimate with each other either end up in a relationship or just need to get away from each other. If you're going to see other people as well, this can get really ugly. Picture this situation, you just had sex with your hot flatmate last week and this weekend you bring home a hottie from a great night out with the boys. Even though your flatmate might pretend it's ok, inside she's probably hating you and feeling some form of jealousy.
You're living with a hot flatmate and you just want to jump in their pants. We get it, but before you jump the gun there's a few things you should consider. There's really no such thing as €friends with benefits' in the long run. Sure, you may be on good terms for a while, but more often than not, flatmates who get intimate with each other either end up in a relationship or just need to get away from each other. If you're going to see other people as well, this can get really ugly. Picture this situation, you just had sex with your hot flatmate last week and this weekend you bring home a hottie from a great night out with the boys. Even though your flatmate might pretend it's ok, inside she's probably hating you and feeling some form of jealousy.
Things can turn ugly very quickly. The best thing to do may be to leave it alone until you're both moved out or until at least one of you has someplace else to go if things go bad. If you've found the most incredible person and you're living with them, well don't let us stop you from becoming intimate with them. It could be a once in a lifetime opportunity. We're just saying play it safe and stay happy.
Whatever your situation is, don't let separate bedrooms separate your sex lives. Try to make the best out of the situation and let yourselves be naughty once in a while. Keep in mind that sleeping separately isn't necessarily a bad thing. It gives the other person the peace and quiet to be able to rejuvenate, recharge the batteries and be ready for more sex time with you.
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